She visited me last year around this time. We went to Kapadokya. We had some fun times. I'm so glad she came because I really needed her around and so did my kids. Badly. My mom is very giving and will give her kids anything they want or need whether or not they deserve it or not. So in exchange for me laughing at her constantly, she saves me from emotional breakdowns and makes life fun when she's around. Does that sound like a fair deal?
My mother used to be a member of the Sierra Club in the San Francisco Bay Area. She would don her hiking boots and go swimming in mountain lakes with a bunch of hippis. Now she still enjoys a good workout, but only if it's fun!
My mom loves to strike a pose, I mean, she loves kids. Especially fat babies that like to snuggle. She tells the best stories, which I never knew until she came and spent time with me in Turkey. From the look in her eyes in the above picture you can tell my mother likes to worry. I don't think I inherited that from her. In fact when I hit her age I think I just might outworry her, to my husbands dismay:(
I just love the fact that my mom doesn't mind getting a little wind in her hair. She'll get her hands dirty. She'll get wet. When we were kids she would spend a lot of time outside in her yard gardening which much of the time meant using the garden hose. We would be bathing in old "galvanized tubs" as she would call them. She would water down our sandbox, cat poop and all, so we could build more effectively. Speaking of cats, we always had so many. And they had the cutest names. Wuggie Norple, Prickly Paw, Chubbins, Kip the Mighty Hunter, Smudge, Graybie, Mamma Shaw, and the list goes on and on. Of course I didn't think the names were cute when I was a teenager. I thought they were "Sooooo lame!"
So my mom loves to garden. When we visited this cemetery in Konya we noticed that a lot of tombs are just a coffin sized planter box. "When I die, Christine, I want to have this kind of tomb, OK?" I'm not sure how I'll manage that one but if that's what you want Mom, you can have it. You'll have to tell me what kind of flowers you want in it.
So my mom loves to garden. When we visited this cemetery in Konya we noticed that a lot of tombs are just a coffin sized planter box. "When I die, Christine, I want to have this kind of tomb, OK?" I'm not sure how I'll manage that one but if that's what you want Mom, you can have it. You'll have to tell me what kind of flowers you want in it.
Hopefully death is a long way off. I know you have high blood pressure and high cholesterol, bad knees, and perhaps a wide array of ailments I don't know about. I know you don't let that get you down. Keep on livin' life to the fullest Mom! Eat whatever Dad puts in front of you.
"It's breakfast time! How about baklava?"
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What a nice tribute!!
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